On Wednesday night I took an overnight bus six hours south to a city called Los Angeles with my cousin Carlos. Of course, I was unable to sleep on the ride--that would have just been too convenient. During winter break, a lot of the family on my grandma's side gets together at my Aunt Elsa's farm. She has a large farm house that neighbors the factory she owns (they produce canned vegetables/ fruits, frozen vegetables/ fruits, and make delicious jams). At first it was a little intimidating to have so many people around because it can be difficult for me to understand what is going on with so many people talking, but I got comfortable very quickly.
During the first day five of us guys went out on an adventura around the farm with the Jeep and ATV that they fixed up a while back. Now, I do not want to deceive you, I was the awkward and confused fifth wheel that had absolutely no control of the situation. Soon after we went out driving, we got stuck in some mud in the field but were able to get out pretty easily. About a half an hour later though, we again got stuck in some mud that was even worse but managed to get out. Well, boys will be boys (although I was definitely not one of these boys!) and they decided to see of they could still drive through this patch of mud in the field by going even faster through it. Someone never taught my cousins to count their blessings because we finally ran out of them and got stuck for good. It is probably difficult for you to imagine me even in such a rugged situation because it is so out of character, so let me break it down: poor Chris is stuck out in the middle of a wet corn field, in the middle of a mud pit, sitting in the back of a Jeep with a rusty roof and no actual seats in the back where he is sitting, uncomfortable because he cannot stretch out, feeling a little sick from the crazy driving, and will not get out of the car because he does not want to get mud on his Diesel shoes (I know, I know, I am not sure what I was thinking when I chose to bring those shoes instead of hiking boots to a farm--lay off!). Two of the cousins tried for hours to try and get out of the mud while we sat in the back of the truck waiting to get out. In all fairness, it would have been unrealistic for me to do anything anyways considering that the mud was literally a foot deep. Finally, two hours later, when the sun started setting, one of the cousins used the ATV to go and get someone to tow us out of the mud. Once they arrived in a pick-up truck, they quickly got stuck as well. Funny, sort of; getting dark and frustrating, yes. Well, they went for a tractor to pull both of the trucks out, and I am not kidding you, the tractor got stuck. At this point the stars were coming out (although, I will note that I never have seen the stars as I did that night, there were thousands of them and I even saw the via lactica (Milky Way) which I have never actually seen before). I guess in this case, four was the charm and the tractor pulled out all three of the other vehicles. That night I truly learned my lesson that you always needs to take a coat with you, because it got cold very fast (sorry Mom, I know you tried to teach me this millions of times before!). I also learned that Diesel is not the Spanish translation of shoes-to-use-out-doors-when-being-manly.
I spent a lot of time working on a project that I found fascinating--making a family tree. I am still lacking a ton of people, but Elsa and her daughter know a lot of information about their side of the family (Gardeweg--originally from Germany). My great-grandmother was one of eleven children, and was an aunt of Elsa. Anyways, the family tree I am working on is a little bit unconventional because I am trying to include people on all four sides of the family, but it is really interesting to me. That being said, I have about 175 individuals accounted for on the tree and have run out of space (I used a 56 inch wide template on the computer), so I will need to re-group and figure out where to go from here. Some of you out there should prepare for me contacting you about the family lineage!
During this trip and past travels to non-English speaking countries, I actually think it is a unique position to not understand what people are saying to one another at times. This is because there is so much more communication that goes on between individuals besides when they are verbally speaking. I spend a lot more time looking at people facial expressions, their body movements and where they place themselves in a room. Perhaps this is due to my experiences within psychology, but I find myself analyzing which social roles each individual takes in a situation and recognize a lot about what I perceive to be their personality and their motivations at a given time. But then again, for all I know these are false observations and I am just making things up to pass the time!
I have to say that one of the highlights of the trip was all of the amazing food. I do not say this because we always ate elaborate meals, I say it because we always ate flavorful foods and always took time to enjoy them. Every meals that we had was absolutely delicious and extremely fresh. Every morning I ate fresh bread with delicious marmalade that was made at the farm. Lunch was served around 2 and always included a freshly made soup and delicious a postre with coffee or tea to finish off the meal. I think one of the greatest feats I had during my trip was successfully eating an apple sufficiently larger than the size of my fist. Although at first I did not really understand what people were saying during meals, I enjoyed the fact that it was a relaxing time when everyone got together and spent time. Although, this is also an easy way to gain a few pounds!
There was no Internet or cell phone access at the house (I personally find that relaxing during trips), so I definitely had to figure out other ways to spend my time. i ended up doing a lot of, well, studying. I know, I know, what the heck was I thinking! See, I brought with me my Spanish translator, my advanced Spanish grammar book and my little notebook where I write down all of the new words. I cannot believe how many times I was praised for being so smart and studious... ha, someone should probably correct them at some point but the attention was too awesome to resist! It actually was really interesting to the younger cousins that were there and they really enjoyed playing with my translator and looking at my book every day to see which new words I learned. One of them got really comfortable trying to talk to me in English and they enjoyed trying to help me learn new words that I lacked. In terms of spending time with the grammar book, it actually was amazing because it reminded me of so many things that I learned before and I also have been learning a lot of new words and ways to communicate. I have also been able to understand a lot better which areas of my Spanish are lacking: prepositional phrases, adverbial phrases, the use of the subjunctive, and well, vocabulary in general... I do feel more confident in my speaking now, although I still stumble a lot when I try to say complex things. It is not due to a lack of confidence because I have no issue attempting to talk with someone, I think it is derived from my desire to really master my understanding of the language so I spend a lot of time thinking about what I am trying to say.
Right now I am on the bus going back to Santiago. The guy next to me does not really have a sense of personal I suppose, as i am cramped between him sprawled out and the window. I mean, it is great that he feels comfortable resting his arm and leg upon me, but pretty much all I am looking for is the arm rest! I was hoping that it would be more interesting to have part of the drive during the day so that I could see where the heck I was, but I honestly have not seen a whole lot. Don't get me wrong, so many parts of Chile are absolutely breath taking, it is just that seeing highway cutting through fields is sort of the same after a while. Since i will be getting into Santiago when it is dark I bet I will be missing some of the more interesting part of the drive approaching the Andes.
Earlier we drove through a city in which the bus had a stop. In all of my travels i have always sensed that towns had a different feel than in the states but not until now have a though about what these differences actually are. So, driving through this town I jotted down some of the things I noticed: homes and stores are often mixed together a lot--in the states they seem to be zoned in more distinct and separate areas; many homes have stucco siding that has been painted over or a tin roof--in the US homes usually have wood or brick siding and tile roofing; buildings are painted in vibrant colors--back in the states homes usually have subtle earthy colors; areas are landscaped here but there are also a lot of areas that are not landscaped and are dirt--it seems like every part of a town in the states is coving with cement, asphalt or grass; all of the homes and businesses here have some type of gate around the property or a sliding metal door covering the entrance--in the US gated community implies high social status! I definitely do not feel like any of these things are abnormal or uncomfortable, they are just noticeable since they are different than what I have been immersed in my entire life. I do also think that being around all of these new things is a great way for me to become less egocentric and increase my multicultural competency (some of you are probably thinking, "duh Chris!").
Holy cow, this is long. If you even got to this point, I am impressed. I also think it may mean that you need to get a hobby if you had the time to read all of this, haha--just kidding! Orientation at the University starts this week. We do not have a whole lot that we do every day, but we have activities all during this week. Wish me luck! And, oh, did you figure out which parts my insurance does not cover?!